The art of eating with your hands in South India
In Tamil Nadu in the deep south of India, they eat a food that is a mixture of bread, gravy and meat. This would be no problem if eaten with a spoon. Instead, grab your bib and prepare to eat with your hands.
Lunch with the staff
On one of my last days working with Neemtec, we had a lunch together with all the staff. As expected, the guys sat with the guys, and the women sat in their own group.
From banana-leaf plate to your mouth
The thing that I found most difficult about my time in India was just getting food into my mouth. Eating with my hands was a lot more challenging than I would have thought. In a tribute to her astute and kind nature, my host’s mother quickly felt my pain and gave me a spoon to use when needed. I still tried to use my fingers, so she cleverly started making foods that were more solid. And Leo’s dad made sure the table was full of various kinds of bananas and fruits. Still, I’m not one to give up easy, so here’s a quick lesson in eating your food with yourΒ hands.
After my first successful food transfer from the leaf to my gob, you’ll hear me say the Tamil word for “delicious,” “narailuku.” I actually tried to learn some Tamil when I was there. Indeed, I think learning as much of the local language as time allows is an important part of intercultural etiquette when you travel. You can hear David, our driver and the guy holding the camera, chuckle when I say it. I never did get it exactly correct. Not sure why. Anyway, it was quite narailuku once I managed to get the food where it belongs!
I still haven’t figured out the eating with your hands thing… I try, but I get more food on myself than in my mouth. haha
LikeLike
Yeah, I was the same. I just couldn’t get into the rhythm of it. I’m heading to Sri Lanka around March…not sure if they have utensils there…or if I have to go through 3 changes of clothes at every meal again.
LikeLike
I just asked my hubby… apparently Sri Lanka also eats with the hands. oh well… It’ll still be fun!
LikeLike
OK, I’ll start psyching myself up for it. Maybe do a few more push ups to get the arm strength and finger-flick dexterity I need to stay fed there. lol
LikeLike
hahaha If that works for you, you’ll have to let me know. I’m not going back to India until next Sept/Oct. It’ll give me some time to prepare! π I look forward to your blog updates!
LikeLike
Cheers!!
LikeLike
The one cardinal rule to eating with your hands in southern India is to never, and I say Never use your left hand for eating or receiving food……….this is for a very simple reason your left hand is used for hygenic purposes…..and for this reason the left hand is considered unclean…but apart from that one basic rule everything else goes so enjoy!
LikeLike
Thanks for the comment! Well, as you can see in the video, I basically flaunted that rule pretty badly. lol The guys there used both hands to rip up their bread and stuff, but yeah, in terms of mixing and eating, it was all just the one hand. Not sure if I’ll ever really get used to that. But it was fun trying!
LikeLike
Strangely enough that rule realy only applies to Southern India, and in other places throughout Asia pretty much anything else goes that said the fork and spoon is certainly making great inroads too… but big respects to you for giving it yer best shot….I enjoyed watching you and you looked like you had a blast:)
LikeLike
Thanks. And yes, it was a great time. One thing I loved about being there was the people were just amazing. People smile a lot, they are generous of spirit, and it’s all with an almost shy modesty. So basically I was smiling the entire trip! Are you from India yourself?
LikeLike
No I am a lover of their culture and customs, and absolutely love their food. Although I do visit a lot am off to Kerala in feb for a few weeks….aint i the lucky one!
LikeLike
Kerala! Nice! I think I had a bit in one of my posts about my first day in India where we passed through Kerala..all I experienced were some quick stops at a few beaches and a lot of stops along the way to just appreciate how GREEN and LUSH everything was. Since returning I’ve researched it more and I definitely want to get back there and chill for a few weeks. Have an amazing trip!!
LikeLike
That looks awesome!!!
LikeLike
Yup. You gotta try it, buddy! I wonder if they have any eat-with-ur-hands Indian places in Chiba City? For you, I mean. I plan to stick with a knife and fork from now on! π
LikeLike
You used the wrong word for ‘delicious’. Hence the laugh.
It is actually a phrase : ‘nalla irukku’. Pronunciation: null-aa ee-rook-koo.
Some people use ‘nanna’ (nun-nah) instead of ‘nalla’.
Now say it quickly, w/o a pause π
LikeLike
I was actually hoping that somebody would write to tell me what it was. I was pretty sure I’d written it wrong. lol I’ll fix it in the post when I’m on my regular computer. Thanks very much. Actually, if my memory serves, thank you is Nandri….or maybe not. I can’t really remember now. Can you help me out here? lol Anyway, thanks a million for the comment!
LikeLike
This unique way of eating is also popular here in the Philippines. I guess it just easy to savor the flavor when we use hands rather than kitchen utensils π
LikeLike
Yeah, I’ve seen a lot of pics of Pinoy friends eating with their hands off banana leaves…but I’ve never actually been in any place where I’ve had to do it. So do you even eat the wet stuff like adobo with your hands when you eat like that?
Also, I just checked out your site. VERY cool, easy-to-engage design and I love the concept of installment payment travel. Hope your business booms. Itβs a great idea!
LikeLike